Introducing Weldon #2-Haddon Reddy Weldon!!

God has been so incredibly good to us over the past several months! We are so delighted to announce that our prayers have been answered! I know I have been a bad blogger and haven’t posted anything in a very long time! This blog post will hopefully bring everyone up to speed on what has been happening in our adoption.

Back in early January we were notified by our adoption agency that there was a 1 year old boy in the DRC who needed a family. Right away Kevin and I said, “YES!” The staff at the orphanage took him to the doctor to get a medical checkup. They began to compile all the paperwork we would need to get an official referral with pictures and his medical info. Once we received his referral packet then we were in LOVE. We quickly began praying specifically for our second son, Haddon. At his medical checkup they found that he was sick with malaria and quickly started him on the proper meds to get him healthy. We praised the Lord for His kindness and protection over our son. In the DRC, malaria is one of the leading causes of death. The Lord’s kindness and Sovereignty kept our son safe and he was treated at the right time. We have only received one set of photos of our second son. I wish I could share his picture! He has the longest eyelashes and cheeks that are destined to be kissed and squeezed by his momma! Please join us as we continue to pray that all his paperwork goes through smoothly and without any snags! 

Kevin and I have been overwhelmed by how much we love these two boys that we have never met. We pray that the Lord would protect them from disease, malnutrition, abuse, loneliness, and so many more unknowns. We fervently pray that they would both grow into men of God who use their lives to worship their Savior and serve other people. We laugh at the videos we have seen of our 3 year old singing ‘Father Abraham’ and naming animals. He smiles, laughs, dances, and kisses our picture. It seems that he has joy. He went from being a boy that didn’t smile to a silly, goofy, energetic kid! The Lord’s kindness and grace shines bright as we continue to see everything come together! 

We are ready for these boys! 

Toddler shower!

Where we are in the process right now:

Enock’s process is almost complete. We have been given provisional approval by the U.S. government to have an investigation conducted in the DRC. This investigation basically double checks and proves that he is a legitimate orphan. Once we get approved by the embassy in the DRC then we will be able to book travel. Please join us in praying that this would happen fast! This step in the process is part of a new law that was passed in February. There haven’t been any families go through this process so we are unsure on how much time this will add to the wait. 

Haddon’s court processes have begun and we have given him a new name and birthday. Please join us in praying that the Lord would be over his paperwork process and his health. Pray that the Lord would protect him and give him caregivers who will protect him and comfort him until we can be united. 

We need your support in prayer and finances! With the likelihood of traveling twice we are needing to begin fundraising for the first set of travel expenses. Our need in travel expenses for the first trip is approximately $6,000. Would you be willing to help us reach our goal? Would you be willing to make a tax deductible donation to our Lifesong account? Kevin and I know that the Lord has been faithful to provide what we have needed to accept the referrals of our two boys. He will be faithful to provide what we need to bring them both home! Thank you for your continued prayers and support throughout this adoption process! Please email me (debbie.debbielwrc@gmail.com) or facebook message me if you have any questions! 

Would you be willing to tap into your network of friends and share our story? If you are interested in sending a tax deductible donation then please follow the instructions below: 

Please make checks payable to: 

Lifesong for Orphans

Po Box 40

Gridley, IL 61744

Please write our family reference number in the Memo of your check: Weldon #2638

Click here to make an online Paypal donation to our Lifesong account. (Please reference: Weldon #2638)

What's up with the Weldons?

Many things have happened since I posted last! We are certainly staying busy with church and trying to prepare for our son to come home! The last couple months have been a whirlwind of excitement, joy, stress, and tears. Let me fill you in quickly on what our life has looked like in the last few months. We officially filed paperwork to make our son a permanent Weldon, began our 30 day adoption judgement time period, we raised our age range for our second child referral from under 1 to under 3 years, we have prayed and grieved with my family over the sudden loss of my cousin, both of us have gotten over a couple sicknesses, both of our cars have been broken into, my car was stolen and then found, we have been rear ended twice (no damage was done), we traveled to Michigan for Christmas, and we had some very dear friends visit us from TN. Let me tell you that the Lord has sustained us through some of the most difficult times of our lives. God has been so kind to us and our faith has grown since we moved to KY. Our new church has been slowly growing and we have been seeing people come to know Jesus. People are worshipping Jesus and joining our fellowship. God is working and we will continue to follow the Lord’s Will! We know that we are doing something right because the devil’s fiery darts are coming at us from all directions. I know what some of you are thinking. “Why are you guys there? Wouldn’t it be better to be in a suburb somewhere? You guys should move to the other end of town.” I have thought the same things but my heart is redirected each time I pray. The Lord wants to use us to be His hands and feet in this community. He wants us to love the unlovable. Encourage the weary. Feed the hungry. Minister to the broken and hurting. That is why we are here! Sometimes following Christ doesn’t make sense but in the end it’s the best for His glory. 

Recently, I had a friend that traveled to the DRC to get her daughter and she graciously brought E a package from us. She traveled to the orphanage and got some of the sweetest pictures of our dear little boy! I wish I could post a photo of him! For his safety we are unfortunately unable to post his picture! But let me tell you, He is BEAUTIFUL! His smile is big and his eyes are joyful. I cannot wait till I get to witness his goofy little personality first hand. E loves to make silly faces at the camera. There were many photos with his tongue sticking out! We received a group photo of the children at the orphanage and our son was in the front. We cracked up at what he was doing! He was holding his giant shorts up, his shirt was on backwards, and he had the biggest smile on his face. You just gotta love little boys! It melted my heart! We were also able to see photos of when E opened his care package from us. He held up our photo album to the camera with a huge smile on his sweet face. You can see the care package in my previous blog post! I have prayed that he would feel SO deeply loved by us and his Heavenly Father. Right now we are waiting for our 30 day adoption judgement to pass. Once we pass this 30 days then we will be able to file for final court dates in the DRC and we can make travel plans. Being united with our son is just around the corner!! I cannot express the joy I have dreaming about hugging him for the first time! Continue to pray for our second referral. We have opened our age range to be 3 and under. Seeing the group photos of the children at the orphanage opened my heart to accepting another older child. It grieved my heart to say we would only be willing to accept a child under age 1 when there were so many older children. We will see what God does. I have surrendered my heart to the Lord. I know that God has selected the children I am supposed to mother. 

This song was written by my husband and our friend Kyle Anderson. 

This video was filmed and directed by our friend, Justin Kelly. Visit TheKellysProductions.com to view more videos by Justin! 

I had a blast celebrating the New Year with sweet friends!

Kevin and our nephews Marcus and Adam! The snow in Michigan was great for Christmas!

Christmas presents for E from our friends Brad and Elicia!

Christmas in Michigan with Kevin's family!

We went to a Pistons game in Detroit! Pistons beat the Heat! Woop Woop!

Prayer Requests: 

*God would continue to grow our church with people who will be His hands and feet in this community. 

*For my family as they continue to grieve the loss of my cousin.

*For God’s protection as we continue to minister. 

*For our travel plans.

*For E’s protection as he waits for us to be united. 

*God would unite us with our second child soon.

New name and birthday. One step closer to home!

“How’s the adoption going?!” I hear this question several times a week! I know I haven’t posted in a while so this post is going to be my attempt to fill you in on our life and adoption! First of all, life in Louisville is going well. After being here for 7 months we are finally feeling settled and like this is home instead of an extended mission trip. Our church has offered us a loving community of prayer and support. We are thankful for these people! Kevin and I have been sick this week. I have been much worse than him and we had to cancel our trip to TN. I was sad that we didn’t get to spend time with family and that we wouldn’t have a Thanksgiving dinner. A sweet family from our church heard that we were sick and at home so they lovingly shared their meal with us! We were certainly thankful for their generosity! 

Kevin & I at Carlisle's Trunk or Treat! So fun!

E is doing very well in his Jumpstart program at the orphanage. He is learning basic English and phrases to help with his transition to our family in America. His teacher sends us progress reports and always says that E is keeping up very well with his class. It is so wonderful that our agency offers this program to children 3+ who are being adopted. The children are learning about what it means to be adopted into a new family. I have been praying for our little guy everyday that he will fall in love with us just like we have fallen in love with him. Another family with our agency was weeks away from traveling to pick up their daughter. They lovingly offered to bring E a package from us! I was able to put together a small backpack full of clothes, toys, photo album, and a letter. My heart is full of joy knowing that E will have this package in the next couple days! This family is in the DRC right now bonding with their new daughter! Pray for them! We have recently sent in official paperwork to change E’s name to permanently be Weldon. Also, it’s been surreal trying to choose a birthday for our little guy! He was abandoned so we needed to choose a birthday so he can get a birth certificate and passport. 

The care package that E will receive in the next couple days!

We bought E a set of bunk beds from a sweet family here in Kentucky for an awesome deal! When Kevin and I were setting up these beds in E’s room I started to laugh and told Kevin that it was weird that the entire time we were in our adoption we imagined setting up a crib in this room. Now, we are setting up a room for a little boy who can walk, and talk, and say Mommy and Daddy. Kevin laughed and said, “We are crazy!” We are crazy! Crazy for this little boy who has been ordained to be a Weldon by our Heavenly Father. This is the child we have prayed for. We continue to pray for an infant from the DRC to fill a crib in our house. The Lord has perfect timing and we know He will provide according to His Will. Pray for our children! Pray that we can travel soon to rescue them! We will update everyone on possible travel plans soon! 

E's awesome bedroom!
Many bedtime stories will be read here!

Give 1 Save 1: Scott Family

Let me tell you guys that this family is a precious family! The Scotts were members at our former church in Tennessee. We loved spending time with Dwane and Ginger and their funny and energetic girls! They are adopting a little boy from Ethiopia. They don't know how old he will be or what he looks like but he will be LOVED! This precious family is being featured on Give1Save1.blogspot.com this week. The idea behind Give 1 Save 1 is for everyone to donate $1 towards the Scott's adoption fund to help offset some of the cost of the adoption. Not everyone can donate $500 but everyone can donate $1.00! Watch their video and donate what you can to this sweet family! Your kindness and giving hearts will help an orphan boy on the other side of the world come home to arms of love. Get the word out and support the Scotts! 

Click here to DONATE! 

WE HAVE ACCEPTED A REFERRAL!!!

The entire time we have been on this adoption journey we have known that it would be a possibility for us to adopt 2 children. Quite honestly, we knew that this option was “out there” but I guess we never expected it to actually happen. Our agency contacted us in August about adopting a 3 year old healthy boy while awaiting the referral of an infant. We prayed about it for a couple weeks. We applied the same 3 questions that we worked through when we began the adoption journey. Those questions were, “Does this glorify God?, Does this make me look more like Jesus? And Does this help others see God’s truth?” The answers that we found were, YES, YES, and YES! We emailed our agency and within a matter of a couple days we received the information for this 3 year old boy. Kevin and I waited to open the referral together while our friends Brad and Elicia recorded and photographed this awesome moment! 

Opening E's referral! 

E was found in the capital city of the DRC abandoned and has been in his current orphanage since May. We are so thankful that we have accepted his referral and that he is our son and permanently a Weldon. He is healthy and handsome and smart. We have enrolled him in a program called Jump Start at the orphanage. This program is for children 3 years old+ who are being adopted. They are learning basic English and what life in America will be like. Also, they are receiving counseling on what it means to be adopted and what to expect. We have received a couple progress reports on how E is doing in his classes. His teacher says he is doing well in school and that he is a very smart little boy. Our agency (Children of All Nations-CAN) has been awesome every step of the way and we are blessed to have chosen them! It is easy to get frustrated with timelines, contracts, and adoption unknowns but our hope is in the Lord! We have confidence and assurance that we have made the right decision with our agency! For more info on CAN then click here for our review! 

Here are a couple cool stories about how E's story coincided with ours! 

*We received a $3,000 matching grant from Lifesong for Orphans! May 12 and 13, 2012 on Mother’s Day weekend we received word that we exceeded our Lifesong goal by over $2,000!!! Read the blog post from that weekend here! This mean’t that we had received all the funds we estimated we needed to complete our adoption. E came to the orphanage that same weekend. Coincidence?! Nope! It was God! 

*Kevin and I received our monthly email update from our agency about how the DRC program was going, etc. Our adoption counselor attached a couple photos of the children at the orphanage. Kevin and I both looked at a little boy in these photos and were immediately in awe of how precious he was. We talked about how cool it would be to have a little guy like him running around our house! When we opened our referral of E we immediately recognized that HE was the little boy we were so in LOVE with in that email update! Coincidence!? Nope! It was God! 

We will are still awaiting a referral of an infant from the DRC. We have been told that we will probably travel twice. Once to get E and once to get our baby! We will be fundraising again for our second set of travel fees! Please pray that we receive an infant referral soon along with God’s continued financial provision! Pray for E's health, safety, and transition! We are excited to be parents of this sweet boy! 

God can move mountains! Total: $33,068

So, if you read my last blog post then you can see that life for the Weldons has been a little bit crazy and busy but good nonetheless! God has been doing some seriously awesome things and we are so blessed by his goodness and kindness towards us. We have gotten past the busyness of summer and now we should be able to catch our breath. I know that I haven’t posted very much onto our blog so I am going to try to make up for lost time!

God has been so kind to us and we are so blessed by his constant provision. We have seen God move mountains in this adoption process! Do you want to know how much he has provided since we began this process in October 2011?!? Drum roll please......$33,068. We believe that this is all the money we need to bring home our child or children!! When I calculated the total I cried! This is another confirmation that God is orchestrating this adoption for His glory and His purpose! We thank the Lord for all the generous donations and for the grants we have been approved for! I am reminded that God is faithful and good despite difficulties in life. One of the hardest things for Kevin and I was making the decision to move to KY. We had a comfortable life with good jobs, friends, and family. Our church was great. Our needs were provided for. We had an awesome support system that supported us in our adoption. We left not because there was anything wrong but because we felt the Lord calling us out of our comfort zone. We knew that moving would be difficult and that ministry would look significantly different than what we were used to. We went from living in a small rural town to living in the city. Over the past few months God has taught us so much about following him. Being a follower and not just a fan. Francis Chan said this,"Following Christ isn't something that can be done halfheartedly or on the side. It is not a label we can display when it is useful. It must be central to everything we do and are." It is our prayer that we live life completely sold out to Christ. We pray that we pour out our lives for Christ’s namesake. There are people all around us who are in need. Helping to feed and clothe these people only minister to their physical need. Their greatest need is spiritual. They need Christ. They need to know the love, peace, forgiveness, and redemption that can only be found in Christ. We know that our love for Christ will eventually carry us overseas to Africa to meet our child. The child that God has ordained to be a Weldon will be safe in our arms. A once orphaned child will be rescued and carried to safety and peace. The life of a true believer is lived out of gratitude for what Christ has done for them. I was once an orphan. Poor, dirty, and hungry. Jesus poured out His life to feed and clothe me. We pray that we would be a reflection of Christ as we live here in Kentucky and travel overseas to bring home our child. 

Our church went to Churchill Downs to serve dinner to 150+ workers.
We had a ton of fun hanging out and serving!

Fun scrapbooking with some of the girls at church!

WHERE WE ARE IN THE PROCESS RIGHT NOW:

OUR HOME STUDY ADDENDUM IS COMPLETE AND WE HAVE RECEIVED OUR APPROVAL FROM IMMIGRATION FOR OUR NEW ADDRESS. WE WILL CONTINUE TO WAIT FOR A REFERRAL! PRAY THAT GOD WOULD KEEP OUR CHILD SAFE FROM DISEASE, HUNGER, AND HARM. 

What’s Happening with the Weldons?

It’s been a while since my last blog post! The last couple months have been nonstop and it doesn’t look like it will slow down until summer comes to an end.  We have done 3 summer camps in 5 weeks and right now we are in the middle of the 3rd. We are in South Carolina at Camp Bob Cooper fellowshipping with some fun adults and students. I am so proud of my husband and the awesome job he is doing in his nightly sermons. We pray that the Lord’s Word penetrates the hearts of the students and that they would consider Jesus! 

It’s been a busy time trying to balance family, summer camps, church, and daily life. In the last couple months we have had family visit us in KY, a couple family emergencies, 3 trips to TN, 3 summer camps, a wrecked vehicle, a home study addendum, our adoption counselor changed, we received over $11,000 as a result of our Lifesong fundraiser, we were approved for a $4,000 grant from Show Hope, and we have had a ton of activities that go along with church! We are exhausted but we know that God is working in our lives so we cling to him! There have been plenty of times that I have had some great things to share but I have failed to make it to the computer! 


One highlight of the last couple months was being able to meet a sweet couple in Louisville that adopted two boys from the Congo. It was the neatest experience and a total God hug! We went to a restaurant with some friends after church a few Sunday’s ago and the couple seated next to our table had their 2 Congo babies with them. I was able to talk to their mother and ask her questions. My heart melted when I was able to hold one of their sweet children. He was beautiful! I just keep thinking, “They’re real! Congo children really do exist!” It was the ray of hope and encouragement that I needed that week. Sometimes the adoption process is so difficult because it almost seems like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. We have no photo, no gender, and no due date. Many times I think about this stuff when my heart isn’t fixed on Christ and I start to doubt. I become forgetful of the promises of God. That random meeting of that dear couple and their sweet children was just the kick in the rear that I needed to turn to Christ and say “Thank you.” Thank you for choosing us for this journey. Thank you for providing. Thank you for loving me so deeply that you would orchestrate a totally random meeting so I could hold a real life baby from the Congo. So, fellow adoptive mothers, don’t lose hope! Don’t forget the blessing of the journey! Fall into the lap of your Heavenly Father and be reminded of Isaiah 40: 31, “but they who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.”

Kevin and I with his nephew, Jacob.  

Kevin and I with his brother, sister, and nephew.  

Kevin's wrecked truck.
We were attacked by a gate during a storm! :(

Ladies Night at Carlisle making bears for
Operation Christmas Child boxes!

Carlisle Avenue student camp!

The girls of Gum Springs student camp!

Kevin speaking in S.C. for Pray's Mill Baptist Church. 

Me hanging out next to the lake in South Carolina!

WHERE WE ARE IN THE ADOPTION PROCESS RIGHT NOW:

OUR HOME STUDY ADDENDUM IS COMPLETE AND WE WILL SUBMIT OUR ADDENDUM TO THE USCIS FOR APPROVAL. WE ARE CURRENTLY WAITING FOR A REFERRAL WHICH IS SAID TO BE 6-12 MONTHS. WE HAVE ALREADY BEEN WAITING 4 MONTHS! PRAY THAT THE LORD’S FAVOR FALLS ON OUR PAPERWORK AND THAT WE WOULD RECEIVE A REFERRAL SOON!